
For your own life
Build the capacity to stay with yourself.
Start with the language of Heart iQ, turn it into a lived daily practice, then enter the deeper retreat room when you are ready.

Heart iQ
Years ago I was taught that we are all one. I believed it, and I could not feel it. Heart iQ is what I built so that a room full of people could stop believing it and start experiencing it, in the body, together.
Next live: What Only a Group Can Heal, 11 to 13 September, onlineLove, Relationships & You, 1 to 4 October, New Eden
Why circle matters
That gap bothered me for years. It is one thing to agree that we are connected. It is another to sit in a room where you actually feel it, in your body, with other people, for hours at a time.
So I set about building something that could produce that experience rather than describe it. What I found is that a group of people, held well enough and for long enough, starts to behave like one thing. Something moves through the room that nobody brought in and nobody could have made alone. I call it Unity Consciousness.
The strange part is that it works at every size. It is the same shift whether it happens between the warring parts inside one person, between two people in a marriage, in a room of twenty, or between nations. What we do in a circle is small, and it is also a working model of the thing our species is currently worst at.
Most personal growth happens alone. We read, we reflect, we journal, we work on ourselves. But there are parts of us that never show up in solitude, because they were formed in the presence of other people, and that is the only place they come back.
That is what a circle is for. Not performing, and not being fixed. I don’t need to be fixed. I need to be met.

The three ranges
Heart iQ is not therapy, and it is not another round of self-improvement. It is a map of where a person can be open or closed, and a practice for opening all of it.
There are three parts to the map. Two of them run through you, and the third is what happens between people.
Your connection upward, to something larger that holds you, and downward into your body and the ground beneath you. The full channel between spirit and earth, running through you.
Relationship with others: your capacity to express all of who you are without shape-shifting, and to receive love, intimacy and care without shutting down. The give and the receive of being met.
The living space between people, which has its own weather. It can open, tighten, or settle, and it usually tells you more than the words being spoken. When a room opens together, the field carries each person further than any of us can go alone.

When any one of these is closed, we compensate. We override, numb, perform or quietly withdraw. Heart iQ trains you to open the vertical, the horizontal and the field together, so you can stay present across the full range of being human.
Drawn another way, these are four directions: up and down through the vertical, in and out through the horizontal, all of them meeting in the heart.
The emotional spectrum is not selective. If you repress your anger, you also repress your joy. If you repress your grief, you disconnect from your aliveness. You cannot push down one part of your range and expect the rest to stay intact.
What is Heart iQFor practitioners
If you coach or facilitate and have felt the ceiling of one-to-one work, this is the clearest introduction to how Circle Work operates. Ninety minutes, no cost.
Three ways in
You do not need to understand the whole path. Choose the doorway that feels closest to the life you are living now.
They all teach the same thing. They differ only in where you are standing when you begin.

For your own life
Start with the language of Heart iQ, turn it into a lived daily practice, then enter the deeper retreat room when you are ready.
The Heart iQ app
Your courses, lesson notes and progress live together in the custom Heart iQ app. Begin on your computer, continue on your phone and return to the exact place you left.
Selected programmes also include Z, your private Heart iQ guide. Ask a question by text or voice, use Practice with Z to explore what is alive, or find a human practice buddy inside the Hub when you want another person beside you.


Enter the room
Online gatherings and in-person retreats where the work becomes something you can feel.
Sep 11 — 13, 2026
Online · 3 Days
Three live days with Christian guiding embodied practice, teaching through real facilitator-training footage and staying in dialogue with the whole Zoom room. Friday to Sunday, 4 PM to 10 PM CEST.
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Oct 1 — 4, 2026
New Eden, Netherlands · 4 Days
An intimate retreat exploring the heart of your relational world. Four days of deep inquiry into love, intimacy, and what it truly means to show up fully in your most important relationships.
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Oct 4–18, 2026
New Eden, Netherlands · 14 Days
A facilitator immersion in healing, alchemy, and corrective experience. Fourteen days of intensive practice, embodiment, and deep facilitation training at New Eden, learning to hold space and facilitate transformation.
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The founder
Christian has spent more than twenty-five years developing Heart iQ through live group facilitation. He has never seen his work as fixing or healing anyone. He creates the conditions where another person’s own capacity and goodness can finally emerge. He still teaches from inside the room, where the work continues to evolve.
Meet Christian
The home of the work
Fifty acres of forest and meadows in the Netherlands, with a residential retreat centre built for the kind of work that needs time, beauty and a shared home.
Discover New EdenFrom inside the work
These reflections come from people who have met Heart iQ through private study and the live rooms.
“This work helped my nervous system recognise a healthy relationship when it finally showed up.”
Sarah · London, UK
“Heart iQ made it safe for me to access my emotions, and it changed everything in my marriage.”
Marc · California, USA
“I have been a therapist for 30 years. If others like me want to move into real heart-centred, transformative work, this is the place to be.”
Joyce Lynn · Therapist · Heart iQ graduate, 2013
“This training is heart-centred, heart-led and heart-opening. Most of all, you will deepen in an experience of what it is to truly feel loved and to love others authentically from your innermost heart.”
Priya Mahtani · Heart iQ graduate, 2014
From Christian
Essays on love, emotional life and the places where self-awareness becomes something we can live.
Foundations was made for people meeting Heart iQ for the first time. Begin privately, at your own pace, and discover what the practice opens in you. You do not need to have it worked out. You only need to be willing to begin.
Begin with Foundations